Fabulous 40

Walking away from my 30 series age,

hello 40 and fabulous

BTW, ending my single status later than others taught me so many things are not in the book and I would love to share with you guys

~ Love yourself, respect youself, appreciate youself. Buy a gift for yourself on your own birthday or after achieving any type of success 

~ Love your parent and your siblings, visit them regularly. Nobody will love you unconditionally like they do 

~ Inner peace is so important, stay away from toxic people 

~ Inner beauty is more important than outer beauty but nothing is wrong to take care of your looks 

~ Your emotional state is important too, if you feel that your emotional getting crumble, find activities that can make you feel good 

~ Health is wealth, including your mental & emotional too 

~ Having fewer quality & positive friend better than many fake friends 

~ Dont compete with others, compete with your old self. You are going to be a better person 

~ Earn your own money 

~ Go travel. See the world. Have more experience in life make you richer than others 

~ Choose hobby/ies that make you happy & positive in life 

~ Learn new skills. That new skills may give you happiness or perhaps earn money from it 

~ At any age, it is never too late to start anything new that will make you happier, positive & better person 

~ Try to not too depend on others, one day they will leave you 

~ Never get jealous with what others have. Our lives are different 

~ Never get jealous of what others are showing in social media. They only show parts of their exciting lives. We do not know what the difficulty they are going through 

~ There is a difference between degrading and constructive criticism. Choose not to listen the people who like to belittle us. We've been a level above them 

~ And, choose your own happiness no matter strange it is, as long as it is not contrary to religion, family and no harm of others